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2003-07-05 - 1:33 p.m. Can a very intelligent, dynamic, creative girl who has her shit together be taken seriously by a male? Most people (men and women alike) would be quick to say "absolutely!" And I'd be inclined to agree. I'm an idealist, after all. OK Take that same girl and add the fact that she has large breasts. While the male eyes occasionally drift south, generally it's still possibe to have an intelligent conversation ... as long as the clothes stay on. Then add the idea that she gives really really good head. Can the same guy now that he's been told this still take her seriously? Maybe. Most men in the situation will be very quick to say that they respect her as a person and as a woman. Some of them even sound sincere. How about if the same guy has actually experienced her talents and not only was she not overstating her abilities ... in fact, they were understated and it was the one of the best blowjobs they've ever gotten. Can he still take her seriously? Can he focus on anything other than the memory of that blowjob and/or the possibility that it might happen again? I'd like to say that it's possible. In fact, there are notable cases in my own experience where I've had the same or similarly intellectual relationships with men afterwards. But generally speaking on the whole it's terrible. Grown men regress into the Beevis and Butthead mentality or suddenly become Andrew Dice Clay. The end result is me being objectified or reduced to only my sexual talents. What happens to the bright, creative, vibrant, enthusiastic, responsble girl with a heart of gold and possessed of a soul you can see in her eyes? Newsflash guys: she's still there. If you actually bothered looking at her eyes afterwards, you might see it. Had a nice time last night. I'll forgive the very cute blonde 21 year old serviceman who just got back from the Mid-East. I was only the 5th female not in uniform that he's exchanged words with in person since being back. I thoroughly enjoyed his company before I had his cock in my mouth (which took several hours). And from what I could tell, he enjoyed mine as well. And there was some really nice eye contact during the process. But afterwards he avoided looking at me. Confusing as Hell, considering the progression. Called him on it too. He said that he hadn't realized he was doing it. OK - at that point it was dawn and he had to get back - had to work today (and military days start early). I certainly hope that it was a schedule thing and he was rushing out because he was being responsible. Because anything else would be greatly disheartening.
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